So, my husband and I just had a fight. Basically he said he wants another baby, but then he tells me that I am "playing him"... telling him that I'll work out, so I can have a baby and then I don't once he agrees to have a baby.

Basically he feels I'm too fat and that he doesn't want me that way!! Said he sees outfits and slim women dressed nice and he would love to see me in those outfits and in a slim body.

Honestly, I don't want to work that hard to lose weight just to get pregnant and gain it all again. I want to look good..., but more than that I want a baby and time with my kids... now I feel I should stop trying for a baby, because I don't want him to keep saying he agreed to make me happy. WE should have a baby... NOT me! I'm getting too old to wait until I'm finally an ideal weight for him and then be unhappy as I get bigger and have to hear it from him again when the baby is born.

And... the real bummer is, I had (what I think was) a chemical pregnancy and am now on my Peak fertility and he is being a meanie... here goes this chance! Any advice. Who think I should stop trying or who had advice where I can both please my husband and have a baby my way and around my planned time???