So my husband just told me the other day he doesn't want to be with me anymore... His reason he said is because he wants to be able to smoke weed and do other drugs and go party with his old friends that do that.   Then I find out he has a hidden Facebook, one where he blocked me so I wouldn't know, two he used a different last name and said he lived in a different city, I see on there all these little hearts between him and this other girl and how they can't wait to see each other.  His friends told me about it and then showed me, note his own friends, three of them at least, said he is a piece of shit and they aren't even talking to him now, they said they would be there for me if I needed... My husband has done a lot of horrible things to me... Which they know of and everyone is just sick of it.  I confronted him and he said he wanted to be with her because she is completely opposite of me, now everyone around here knows this girl, she is a major heroin addict, the biggest whore in the area and I know it's childish but she is very ugly and overweight and has two children from two different people and she doesn't work or anything.  He said she will do drugs with him and party with him... We had been together 5 years, I gave him everything and anything... And I have loved him more then anything.... I am just devastated over this, he couldn't even have the respect for me to tell me himself or wait to be with this girl like I'm just so shocked because everything was good, and now I just can't stop crying.. To choose drugs and partying over your wife... His family when I met them a long time ago warned me he is a liar but I wanted to see the best in him and I stayed... I knew he had lied about going and doing drugs before, I've always caught him in all his lies but it's him being with this girl, wanting to just throw it all away and be with someone like that is just killing me