Confused with my feelings ?

I don't know if any of you go through the same thing but I notice a lot in myself when I start liking a guy I get giddy and excited and wanting to meet them again and I'm literally on cloud 9 
Then I get this wave of sad emotion where I put up a wall and want to shut them off and I get really insecure. 
How can I avoide this from happing ? 
It's like I want them in my life but at the same time I don't cause I don't want to the rejection :/ 
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Ca

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Judging by what you said, have you been hurt in the past? If you have, this is your way of blocking the hurt. You are scared to let anyone in for that reason; of not going through the same hurt again. Sometimes in life, one has to take a chance....take things slow so that you can get to know the person better, you will then find that your "wall" will slowly start to break and allow you to let them into your life.

rw

rw • Feb 22, 2016
well sai

Ta

Tara • Feb 22, 2016
Thank you (((( HUGS ))))

Sa

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I have these same issues and still struggle with them in my current relationship. Doesn't help it's long distance either. 🙁