Baby daddy quit his job & is behind on child support but went on vacation with his wife.
My ex quit his job and since he quit the child support stayed at $303 a month. They told him it wouldn't be lowered unless I went in and lowered it. He wanted me to make it $50 a month but I said no. It's been 4 months and I got tired of him not paying anything so I told him I'd lower it to $50. He said "fuck it" because I didn't help him when he needed it the first time he asked. He's already behind so he said screw it now. They took the back child support out of his income taxes but I haven't gotten it yet. He's in Florida right now with his wife. They go to concerts and stuff all the time. Why should he get to do all this stuff and not pay child support? I asked him how he could afford to go to Florida and he hung up on me. It's not right.
Edit: I didn't lower it.
Edit again: We were 20 & 21 when we got pregnant and were dating. I told him I didn't want his wife playing mommy to my kid and for her not to buy anything for my kid. She can have her own kid and buy stuff for it! I don't want her playing mommy. I'm 23 now. I live with my dad who raised me alone. I don't have a job or go to school. My dad provides for us so I depend on child support.
Edit X three: Yeah, child support goes through the state. And my child loves her stepmom but I don't want her playing mom!
Edit: My dad raised me alone and we don't have an arrangement. If my ex and I would have gotten married, I'd have moved out. But we didn't. When I do, I'll move out. He just supports me and now my child.
Edit: I was going to community college but quit and went back but quit again. When I went to school, my grandma watched my child for me for free. She doesn't work and is free every day. I'm not going back to college again. I haven't gotten a job because I don't need one. My dad supports us. I have no bills. I have food stamps and WIC. I count on child support for the rest of the stuff. I just think he should be paying me and not vacationing.
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