I have been married for 14 years i am 32 years old. Had 1 miscarriage 3 years ago never got ptegnant again. Im on the pill. I am debating weather i shoul get pregnant or not. My husband and i go on road trips and out of town alot and i sometimes think that if we have a baby i wont be able to do these things anymore and he is than going to find someone else to do them with??? Hellp