Viagra is my downfall

Megan
Hey ladies! I was hoping someone has gone through this and could be helpful! My husband and I are "TTC". I got a BFP on Christmas Day and miscarried the 3rd week of January... I'm tracking the best I can on here but my problem is the husband... He has ED and has to take viagra in order to have sex and half that time he doesn't actually get off... I try asking and explaining to him why certain days are important but if he doesn't want to he doesn't want to. Lord knows I have tried everything. He is not a normal man... Lingerie, kissing him, talking dirty... Those things make him laugh not turn him on... I feel like it's all a struggle. After the miscarriage I'm terrified to try again by he swears it's going to happen... The problem is you have to have sex to have a baby! I'm so frustrated idk what to do!! Any suggestions?