My cycles are long (35-41 days). I usually get clear signs of AF and this month I have not any any signs of AF, but also no signs of pregnancy. However, my cervix is high and soft (never can tell if open or closed). I took a test this morning and got a BFN. Ughh! I just want AF to either show her ugly face so I can move on and have an answer or even more so I want a BFP. The wait is killing me!! (End rant.)