Ingrown hairs/ vaginal acne

Tylar • 👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
I feel kinda weird about asking this, but am I the only one that gets really bad Razor burn after shaving or multiple ingrown hairs/ acne even after I wash really good, and do everything properly after shaving? Because I want it to stop, for one I plan on having sex for the first time in a few weeks and I just don't think that's pretty on a vagina😂 and sometimes when I try popping them nothing happens and also they show up so often it scares me sometimes that they're something else like a STI or STD, or like hpv when I'm still a virgin, help. 
*ive also tried waxing by using a homemade sugar wax and I did it last night and it works better I don't notice any irritation, so maybe it's just shaving? But I still want to get rid of the ones I have now*  so if anyone knows any tips and tricks to stop this so I can have a beautiful smooth vagina😂😂 it would help so much.😭😭🙃