There are some days when he gets full on hard and it feels amazing but sometimes, he does get hard but not entirely. Its not soft, but its not 100% hard. Even my bf doesnt understand and there are more times that he doesnt get 100% hard. He doesnt get a full on hard on when hes inside of me either. Is it because we dont do foreplay enough or that he masturbates/cums a lot? He masturbates because he wants to lasts longer when having sex. Thanks for the answers!