We purchased the preseed (my husband and I) I am currently ovulating tomorrow is my highest fertile day. This may be a retarded question but I have searched the net for all these answers but I don't trust some of them. So I would like to ask you guys!?!?!? OK SO WHAT IS IT THAT IM CHECKING WHEN IT SAYS TO CHECK THE (DISCHARGE????) OR WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOUR SUPPOSED TO CHECK? AND HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT? some posts say that your panties will have the discharge on them and if not stick your fingers in to check the mucus it said something about the color and thickness.?? Also what should my temp run? I'm sorry its kinda dumb questions but after trying for 7yrs and not being successful were doing our best to conceive. I have currently one child _(wasn't trying when I became pregnant with him 9 almost 10 years ago. So all this is knew. If you guys could possibly give me pointers positions or anything you can think of to help us out we would greatly appreciate it. Please and thank you. And good luck to each and everyone of you.