I'm out huh?

Joli
I'm due for af on 2/26.....4th month ttc #2 after 12 years from my first. ..I've waited so long bc I finally met the right guy to have one with, unlike the first time, but he wasn't planned. I'm 31 and this was the first cycle I used opks...had my siege on the 11 or 12th..... we obviously did the deed plenty, used preseed and everything. I took a test 8dpo and today at 11dpo and all BFN.... I'm out right?