I have a massively high sex drive and always have. My boyfriend is very good at what he does and he never fails to please. But... More and more frequently it's hurting when we have sex, like friction pains. And I'm super tender and sore after. and it's not because I'm not turned on enough that's definitely not the problem, I don't know if it's because he's a bit bigger or if he's going to fast. Anyone else had this problem and know how to help. It's really starting to make me dread sex rather than be excited.