What would you do.

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I had a baby young and she is beautiful and amazing. Me and her father never worked about because we was better off friends and did nothing but fight.. . so we broke up and later I met a great guy who I became pregnet with.. We was trying. Got engaged and fell madly in love. I'm now 20 weeks pregnant with him. He left me because I messaged my first baby's father and said hope life's going good. Thanks for being a great father to our daughter and I thinking about you hoping your life's going great like mine. So he left me. I don't know what to do. What would you do if you was in these shoes? I don't plan on having anymore kids after this. But I wouldn't change anything.

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Well if he left you there's not much to do but move on and try and make a good life for your children.

The women on here are probably gonna tell you that there was no reason for him to leave and he was overreacting.

But if the tables were turned and he messaged his ex saying that stuff, the women on here would be telling you it's shady, and half of them would tell you to leave.

Either way, it's in the past now.

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I wouldn't have messaged my child's father with anything that wasn't regarding my child in respect of my fiance... but now since you are facing the consequences of your actions you need to focus on you and those babies.

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I don't understand how you texting your babies father is a good reason for him to leave his pregnant fiance. That seems ridiculous to me. Yes you text someone and you're in a relationship but he's your child's father, you are going to be in each other's lives forever, you should be able to be nice to each other with out it blowing up. Lots of couples can't even manage to be civil, I think it's nice that you were happy enough in your own life to be able to wish him happiness in his. If that really is all the message said then that is crazy to me and major insecurity on his part.

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I think he over reacted but also why would you even do that? I think you guys should just have a talk and set boundaries.

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He should understand that you are pregnant and your moods can affect some of the actions that you take. 
I cannot tell you if you was right or wrong for texting someone else whilst being in a relationship but good luck because you will need it with two children..💕

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I think he overreacted for the simple fact that it is your daughters father.

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Honestly, if your intention (which is what it seems like to me) was to tell your ex how great your life was, I'd be hurt too if I were your boyfriend. Why would you care for your ex to know how great your life is, unless you're not over him? To me, that would sting if I were in your mans shoes. It's not so much the rest of the text, but that part would really make me reconsider a relationship with you.

What would you do.

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