I just wanted to share my opinion on the topic of the baby's father. I'm married and my husband is very excited and I encourage his evolvement in the pregnancy as much as my own. However I feel like a lot of first time moms do not realize that the baby's dad whether it be boyfriend, husband SO or whatever is still a parent of the child just as much as the mother. So many mothers act like they are the only ones having a baby. I just wanted to point out, don't neglect your partner.