Would you tell her parents?

Question

I have a best friend who has changed all of a sudden. I'm 19, pregnant with my first so I see her behaviour as immature and crying for help. But I feel like I can't allow her todo this to herself. She never drank or took drugs before..

So now she's met this waist of space who has no job and sniffs and smokes his money. She's really interested in him and does anything to please him.. Since knowing him, she's lost her job due to not turning up, taking out loans £200 a time and spending it all on weed and alcahol.

Her parents are very wealthy and have brought her up very well, to live a life better then this. She's just partying hard every night. She had a new job to attend today and I asked how it went and her reply was "I never went I was too hungover, didn't stop drinking until 6am"

Her parents have messaged me privately on Facebook in the past few weeks asking about this guy and what she's doing and I've not said a word as I was loyal to her. But I feel like I can't watch her do this to herself anymore, he's out of control. She's even trying to get herself pregnant behind this guys back which is beyond crazy!!!

Please help and advise me...

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You need to let her parents know what is going on. She sounds depressed. She may not like you for awhile after you tell her parents but she will realize you did what was best for her and she will forgive you and be ok with you once she realized what she is doing and how it's affecting her and how bad it is. Deffinately tell the parents

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Sounds like she has some sort of depression going on. I hate to say it but for your sanity let her parents deal with it and take care of yourself. I went through something similar when I was younger.

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If you love her and truly care for her tell her parents the truth. I'd want someone to tell me if it were my daughter. And I'd be so thankful.

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I've never had a good friend go crazy which I'm very thankful for, but to be honest with you, sometimes you have to do what's best for them because you love them even if that means losing her as a friend until she realizes how much you helped her. Not showing up for a new job and partying all night is not the kind of life she will want to be living once she's in it for a while. You know her better than I but if I were in your shoes I would consider what's best for her and what would help her get straightened out. 
She's also not exactly the kind of person I would want my child around. If your expecting and wants to be a part of your child's life, partying isn't the way to do it. Just sayin

Would you tell her parents?

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