It could just be hormones, but it kind of hurt my feelings. She said another family member had a shower a couple years ago and "everyone" in the family thought it was bizarre. She then added, "but don't worry, I bought you a stroller."

While that's a kind gesture, that is one thing I wanted pick out for myself. I'll be the one spending time using it, it should have the attributes I'd like, right?

Just flustered over this. In my family, we love excuses to get together and celebrate anything; especially new life! Not sure how to get over that.