Need to vent..

Robin • 👰🏻 🤵🏼2012 👦🏼 2013 👧🏻 2016 🍼11/19
I am really angry at my "friend" right now. 
She is supposed to be planning a baby shower for me, but all she can talk about is how her husband supposedly hates mine. She uses that word, hate, repeatedly.  
I've known her husband for about ten years, and I know he's not a hateful guy, he's very laid back. Her spouse and mine really haven't had much interaction, and certainly not enough to dislike each other so strongly. 
I think she is jealous because I'm pregnant. I know she wants to have a baby, but she and hers already have two kids and he doesn't want to have another, at least not any time soon. 
Here I am with baby #2, and I think that bothers her. But why would she volunteer me a baby shower if she's bothered by me? 😠 I just don't get it. I would rather she open up and say something, and I certainly don't want to be in her home for a party she throws me if she can't stand the sight of me.