Are you still a virgin if your first time was rape?

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I've had this discussion with my closest friends because I am a victim of rape I was blacked out drunk and woke up half naked next to a "friend" of mine and a open condom wrapper.

A little advice to all you girls that feel safe around friends, always keep your guard up and never lie to your parents.

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Yes you're still a virgin. Until u consent to it, then you're still one in my eyes

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Virginity is just a concept, so you are if you want to be.

Sorry that happened to you.

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Medically no but mentally yes. That's just my opinion, though. I'm sorry that happened to you! 😢

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As a person who has been raped, I find the "No" responses highly insensitive and damaging to the victim. It's like taking responsibility for something forced upon you. In my eyes yes you're still a virgin I'm sorry that this happened to you and please make sure you talk to someone you can trust or rely on to get you professional help.

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I was raped by my babysitter when i was about 4. He penetrated both holes down there. But i still tell people i lost my virginity when i was 16. Virginty is given not taken.

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I think so...I've heard of Himens(sp?) being broke by super active people even before they've had sex...I'd still consider you a virgin.... You haven't consented to lose it so in a sense you still have it

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As a survivor of multiple rapes over the course of my life I can tell you, yes, unquestionably undeniably yes, you are still a virgin until you give it away. I still considered and felt like a virgin until my wedding night almost 3 years ago

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Virginity is not a real thing anyway. I think the whole concept is damaging and this is one reason why. What goes in your vagina (or anywhere else) doesn't change you.

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The first time I had sex, I was raped. I lost my virginity 2 years later when I chose to do so.

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The first time I was raped, I was 15 and a virgin. He took my virginity using a sandwich bag as a condom. He was 19, we were both drunk, but not drunk enough not to know better. I was awake the entire time, I told him no, I begged him to stop. Once you have sexual intercourse, willing or not, you are no longer a virgin.

Are you still a virgin if your first time was rape?

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