One way!?

My husband is on me about everything sometimes I feel controlled by him! I have changed so much since we've been together and married from the way I dress(no tight jeans, tee shirts, but covered) to who and how I talk to friends and family not telling his business! and even not speaking to old aquantices. He says I need to be transparent because he does those things but I changed my number, he didn't old girls have texted and he has talked to old flames, he post half naked pictures on social media, I had to remove all celebrities because that is groupish, he had keep important things from me about bills not me I'll be told off!!! Help is it control or protection