The handicap of pregnancy

In my life I am used to getting things done myself. I've always hated relying on others to do what needs to be done in a timely manner. I start becoming overcome with depression when I see no progress for days so I have been frustrated. I see these things that need to be done soon and no one is taking care of it and I'm not allowed to. There is so much. But damnit I'm going to do something. I've seen a trend. I start taking care of things and my family sees me and realizes "oh shit I should help you with that". One way or another it's going to get done even if I have to be creative in order not to do heavy lifting. Of course I'm still careful and go at a slower pace.