Mother in law maddness!!!

So my hubby and I have been trying to figure out a name for the baby. We are 6 days away from seeing our baby. Throughout the pregnancy we have had little to no names at all. Before all this happen I explained to hubby that if we should have a boy I don't want a junior. We also agreed that ge would be able to pick out the name he liked. He had a name pucked out and he liked it alot. He couldn't come yp with a middle name so i came up with one. He liked it! He told his mom what the name was going to be and she out right said "thats a fucked up name don't name him that! Where did that come from? No name should be on the baby but yours(hubby)" she then said if your not going to name him after you why not name him after your father? I am soo frustrated with this lady there are numerous things she have done and said that annoys me so much! Lets not forget that after the baby is born she wants us to travel 21/2 hours so she can see the baby because she don't want to come to us! We also have a 21/2 year old as well....i don't know i just feel like all this for what?