Do you or your SO have a mental health problem? If you what is it and how to guys cope with it? I have an anixety disorder and I also suffer from depression there's times I really wanted to hurt myself by cutting or actually thinking about trying to kill myself sadly and my boyfriend doesn't quite understand it sometimes and he get pretty scared when I try to hurt myself I'm trying to back into therapy and try to tell my boyfriend what actually wrong with me instead of hiding my "dark" thoughts from him