Fighting with husband.

Ever since I got pregnant me and my husband have been fighting more and more. A little back story- me and my husband are high school sweet hearts. We have been together for 10 years. Been married for 3. He's in the military. I'm 3 1/2 months pregnant. I've always wanted to have kids. Told me he would love to have kids. He promised me once we got staff sergeant we could start trying. He got promoted and we got pregnant! Now he it seems to me he wants nothing to do with me. I tell him information about the baby like the baby can here us now and he rolls he's eyes and says ewwww I don't want to know. He tells me now we r stuck with it for 18 years. He told me he won't be in the labor room or cutting the cord. And he's going to be here for the birth but got orders to leave after a month. He told me maybe this will get him to Skype more.... it's like pulling teeth trying g to get him to Skype just with me... usually when we fight which we never fight it's over in 2.5 seconds but lately he instigates me and keeps going when I tell him to stop. I talked to a therapist and they classified him as a verbal abuser. Idk what to do. I want to leave him bc he's changed so much in a negative way since I got pregnant and I just worry with the things he says to me, what he will say to our child when they start to understand things. Is anyone else going through something like this or have imput?