Ughhhh....
My baby girl is 5 months old. Every week my MIL comes to visit she feels the need to post a picture of her on facebook! I only post pics of my daughter on holidays or major milestones (for example her 6 months is coming up). She doesnt even ask and has to be reminded to tag me and my husband. I dont know who her friends are on fb and whos looking at my daughter!
My mom bought the baby a beautiful outfit. I took the time to make her nice, took pics of her in it and was going to share later on fb (fell asleep), so my MIL comes to visit and takes pics, then automatically shares it on her fb. I was so hurt! My mom gave her the outfit, yet she posted it, like she did it all!
Argh, his whole family! my hubbys aunt told everyone on fb and posted a pic that i was having a baby girl during our gender reveal, she didnt even bother to say, is this okay to post?
Before we had our daughter, we told his mom that when she was born, we would like to have our time together as a family and we would call everyone when we got to our recovery room. Guess who knocks on our labor and delivery room as im nursing my baby for the first time? My husband didnt let her in (i just gave birth!) and got yelled at for it! Im never going to let that go, i dont care if she apologized. She couldnt even respect my first moments as a new mom with my child. When i was pregnant, she used to call me to see how i was doing. Now, all she does is call my husband to see how things are, to schedule visits, etc. She hasnt called me once since i had my daughter, yet when she sees me (says i love you, gives me hugs, bleh). Now when they visit, i leave the house. I make excuses like grocery shopping, errands, etc.
Does anybody else have these experiences or feel this way about family members, in laws, friends, etc? Its so frustrating and hurtful. Thank you for letting me vent! Staying strong!
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