Gender, know before or at birth?


Hello ladies,

This is my first pregnancy and I wanna do everything right an like I'm supposed to do. But me and my fiancée have decided to not know the gender of our child until he or she (he is praying it's a boy) is born. I have been getting a lot of negative feedback from friends and family. So I was wondering what ya'll thought. Plus! If it is a girl, I absolutely hate pink and refuse to dress her in pink frilly frufru crap. Just as a side note