I have been with my SO for 3 years and yes we are on the younger side (I just turned 20 and he's 19). I am 6 weeks pregnant today and we've been discussing when to get married.

We already agreed to just have a courthouse wedding (saving $$ and all) and who is going to be our witnesses.

We just don't know whether to do it before or after the birth of our rainbow baby.

My EDD right now is Oct 27. Before we knew I was pregnant, we wanted to get married on Halloween this year.

On one hand, I'd love to get married on Halloween and you know have the baby there but on the other hand, what if the baby is full term and we have to be in the hospital for a couple days or what have you.

I don't know. I need help I'm not good with decisions.