dominate and submissive?

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I've been seeing this guy for awhile and I'm ready to finally have sex with him but he's into girls who are submissive to him during sex which I'm totally into and have always wanted to try it I'm just kind of nervous to try it because it's like opening the door to a whole new world for me. Does anyone else have dominate and submissive sex with their boyfriend/husband? Which one are you? How is it? Do the dominate ones do most of the work? Also am I the only one who gets SUPER turned on when a guy tells me what to do or bosses me around I feel like that's not normal or at least not that common lol.

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We want to but I don't think we can take each other seriously lol

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It's a lot of fun if done correctly. I personally had a "safe word". If what he was doing was too much or I needed him to quit (he was hurting me or something) I would say the safe word and he would quit. It takes a lot of trust in your Dom. It's always worth a shot to try something new 😁 Just make sure you guys are on the same page before it goes down lol

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We do it like that sometimes but there are other times that I like to take control. I'd be bored if it were the same all the time.

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Nope, welcome to the world of kink.  Lots of people have dominant and / or submissive tendencies, which is perfectly normal and healthy.  There are a lot of sites and blogs about this topic that make a really good introduction to this, as well as some forums (but watch out for creeps, I'd stick to public forums and stay away from private messaging).  And for what it's worth, I would start slowly- really slowly- with a new partner just because it is hard to meet expectations of a new dominant right off the the bat.  Sit down and have a good long talk about it with your partner, which he should be willing to do because if he wants you as his submissive then he must be willing and able to teach you how to be his sub- this should happen with even the most experienced submissives.  If he just wants to get into it without really explaining his wants and needs and having you explain yours, he is not the dominant for a beginning submissive.  That's not to say you should abandon the relationship in that case, just be wary of him trying to push you too hard to do things you are not comfortable with.

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As for me, I'm submissive to my bf most of the time, though I haven't been into kinky stuff for the past year or so.  Comes and goes for me, kind of getting back into that mindset though.  I've been doing this for about five years with different partners.

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We alternate. Sometimes my hubby is dominate and sometimes it's me. Variety is necessary I'd say

dominate and submissive?

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