Am I over reacting?

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My husband and me are 9 weeks pregnant. And he loves gaming. He started gaming with a girl from Utah frequently and just the way she giggled and talks to him makes me uncomfortable. I feel like she's flirting when she knows about me and the baby. I told him I trusted him 100 % but im jealous and would feel better if he didn't game with her anymore. He got upset told me I was crazy and said no one else plays with him and this is the first COD buddy he's had in along time. He deleted her as a friend but she still joined his game tonight and I said it was fine so long as he didn't speak with her through his headset. But I think he's doing that as we speak. So I guess my question is am I just being hormonal and need to calm down? Or should he have stopped gaming with her all together because she makes me uncomfortable and I'm his wife?

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I think you have every right to be upset. You told him it made you uncomfortable, and as your husband he should respect that and not talk to her. He would feel the same way if another man was talking to you that way.

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You have every right. How would he feel if you did something with another man? I feel for you girl. You're not crazy lol.

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Honestly I wouldn't be okay with my husband doing that with another girl even if it is gaming. You don't like if, he should respect that. After all, you are carrying his child. 
It's just not an appropriate thing and can lead to other things or feelings which would not be good for the marriage. Just talk to him and be gentle but firm about how you feel. Communication is key and he needs to know how you feel. 
Honestly makes me a little angry just reading this at how he is acting.

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I think you need to chill. Unless he's getting nudes to his inbox it's just a random chick on PlayStation or Xbox whatever.

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You're not over reacting. If you feel uncomfortable then he should stop.

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My hubby plays TONS of video games so much so that I get jealous of the guys lol. 😂

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It's just a game. My husband plays WOW and talks to some girl all the time I tease him and say how's your girlfriend?? I think it's just that you're pregnant and the hormones are going crazy!

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My husband games from time to time, he won't talk to girls on their because of me but there's nothing to be jealous about, it's not like he can see her or is on fb with her... It's just gaming and like my husband says, most of them gamer girls are attention whores and prob fat with a crater face.. Don't over react, pick your battles as they say.. Good luck..

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I don't think you're crazy! But I do think you might be over reacting a little bit. I think if anything was going on she wouldn't know about you.

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I had this problem my SO was oblivious to this girl, but she would always ask about me and him and check we are okay etc at first I thought it was nice then it was all the time and it just got a bit nosey for my liking anyways she realised he really wasn't interested and when he told her that he proposed she suddenly 'disappeared' I'd ask him and he also has no clue. He now sees my view but he generally is oblivious to females around him. I guess I'm pretty lucky but it is annoying.

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