SEX 101

My husband is my first. We've been married for 1yr now. I don't have any sisters so it's hard for me to get advice from anyone.
Sex was painful for first few months. Inserting is always still painful but then feels great. It's feels as if I'm losing my virginity all over again.
Question- is it normal to always be painful when inserting? 
Is it normal to not orgasm with intercourse?
I can never seem to come when he's inside so I tend to rub myself at the same time to orgasm.
Any tips or advice would be great please.