Confused and hurt and don't know what to do
So I'm almost 8 months pregnant. After I started to show I noticed my husband's behavior starting to change. He had always said pregnancy is sexy and all this nice stuff but his actions don't show it. He has gone now 2 weekends with just playing on his game system and not completely ignoring me but still in a way ignoring me.
He recently went to California for a business trip and I noticed he was on Facebook a lot. He is never ever on Facebook. So I decided to check which I know is wrong but it was the only way to see if any of my suspicions were true. Which they were.
A while back before we got pregnant he got really upset, almost livid with me because one of my best friends who is a guy text me at like around 9ish I think it was just to see how I was doing. I hadn't talked to him in a while anyways, and my husband freaked out and told me it was disrespectful to him that I allowed hat to happen, so I stopped talking to him.
He has a ex from high school that he was very close to and talk about her all the time and I told him if I couldn't even talk to a friend then I wanted to him to stop talking to his ex because I felt it was disrecptful to me since I didn't do it to him.
Well a few days ago I found out that when he went to California for his trip he started talking to her again.
1. I'm upset because I have kept my promise to him and he has not kept his to me
2. He waited until he was out of our state and away from me to do it.
I'm having a really hard time with this. I have not let him know I went and looked, but I'm having a hard time not saying anything because I feel like it will continue and I'm also offended by some of the contents of the message, like him saying he will give her pictures of my daughter.
I just have no clue what to do.
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