Is it weird?

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Do you think it's weird that i want this baby to be born on my 1st miscarriages due date?  I know they're different babies and I'm pretty sure they are even different sexes. Though i never got verification with my first I just felt like she was a boy,  but would it be weird if i schedule this baby's c-section date on the original due date of the first baby? I guess I might already have my mind made up,  but I think I'm mostly looking for verification that is ok and not weird.  I won't be offended by any answers so please feel free to be honest!

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I found out i was pregnant on 3/17/15. I unfortunately had a mmc with that baby. I am currently 36+3 weeks and i am due on 3/27 but i am kind of hoping she comes on  3/17. It would be exactly a year since finding out i was pregnant with our angel baby.

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I think it's weird that you'd want that.  2 completely different pregnancies and do you want the birth of your baby to be associated with a miscarriage?  It just sounds a bit crazy.

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How far along will you be and are you sure you are getting a c section ? As long as it has no harm coming to the baby because it's to early or late I assume it should be fine but doctors usually scheudle c sections when the are able to be there so hopefully your doctor will be there ..

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I had mc on October 1st at 6w2 and got pregnant 10 days afterwards. I will have c-section scheduled (medical issue) but I know it's another pregnancy, another baby. I won't take any risk for my current baby, even if losing my first was so difficult to go through. I know my baby Angel looks over my current baby to keep him safe and healthy. It would be like I would care more about my feelings than my baby's health. A baby needs to fully grow before entering this world. Why would you not let him come fully prepared just because your first loss was close (date)? I'm sorry to say that but to me it seems very selfish. A mom wants the better for her child, not for her

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I don't think it's weird. I'm actually wanting sort of the same thing. I had a miscarriage on my birthday last year, and this year I'm really hoping I have my baby on the same day since I'm due around that time. I feel like it's really symbolic. What was the worst day of my life so far can become the best day of my life. But obviously we will never forget the first little babies, it would just make that day more special for me.

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I had a miscarriage with by first pregnancy and then I got pregnant four months later with my son and I worried my whole pregnancy about what could happen and I didn't enjoy anything I was to scared to love him ..

But I love him more than anything my while pregnancy was amazing!

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*felt like she was a girl.  This one is a boy!

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