Dreams about my ex, do I tell my husband?

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At the very beginning of our relationship 3 years ago I was not really dating more sleeping around with my ex boyfriend Mike. We have been on again off again bf/gf  for almost 4 years the last year was more friends with benefits than actual dating. So I ended things with him after about a month of dating my husband. We've been married 5 months. All this week and a few times since I've had vivid intimate and nonintimate almost "flashback" dreams. It's eating me up, I've talked to friends about it but idk if I should talk to my husband about it too. Any ideas about what I should do?

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If you feel like you want to act on those dreams, then yes you should tell him. If you don't it's harmless. I wouldn't tell him because he be hurt by it. You can't control your dreams.... So I wouldn't tell unless you still had feelings for him

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That's definitely not a dream I would tell my husband. It would only upset him. Hell, I had a dream about an ex last night. And when we were engaged, I had these recurring dreams about a boy I knew in high school who was my best friend until we tried turning it into more, and I freaked and ended it, ruining the friendship. I dreamed about that guy once a week before we were married. I'm sure it meant something but dreams are only dreams. I'm sure my husband has dreams about other women sometimes too. But we love each other and trust each other and I know that even if I dream about an ex, it doesn't mean I want that ex, or anyone else for that matter. I can't control my dreams, but in real life, my husband is my world and I would never change that. So there would be absolutely no point in telling him that an ex popped up in a dream. Just no reason at all.

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Do you still have feelings for him? Usually dreams are just dreams. Xx

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I wouldn't think anything of it. Pregnancy always brings vivid and weird dreams and it's common to dream about other men even sex dreams with other men while pregnant. As long as the dreams go away after you have the baby, or if you only started getting them after you got pregnant you're fine. Nothing to worry about :)

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Me and my husband always talk about our dreams. Especially the weird ones. Lolz. Just open up to him. The more you hide it, it could eat at you. And if it was nothing bad, then you should have nothing to worry about.

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I talk to my husband about everything. Good bad or indifferent, I know we can always figure it out together.