I'm 6 weeks 6 days pregnant with my first, and I am happily married to an absolutely incredible man who will be an amazing dad. Before he and I got together, though, I was in a serious relationship with a man who became extremely abusive and nearly took my life. I have PTSD due to that relationship and severe general anxiety. So here's the thing. My baby's due date is October 25. My ex's birthday is October 24. I really really don't want my baby born on that day but obviously I cannot control that, and I am not the kind of person to "schedule" delivery for whatever day I want. So I guess what I'm looking for is some advice for coping with the possibility that my baby may be born on that day, and reframing my thought process to think of my baby without the anxiety of thinking about the horrible person who nearly took my life. Thank you in advance!