Family has ignored me after miscarriage

I'm not sure which group I should post this under, but I'm  just really needing to vent a little. My husband and I recently experienced a second trimester loss about a month ago. As many here know, going through a miscarriage and losing a baby is an incredibly difficult experience. I have also been quite depressed at times. The thing that really bothers me a lot is that my husband's family has completely ignored us since we lost the baby. No phone call to check in on us, no text, email, nothing.. On Facebook they have even ignored my posts too, but continue to interact with my brother in law and his gf. I must add that they are emotionally distant people to begin with and they have always favored my husband's brother and his gf so we are usually chopped liver anyhow...  I'm just really hurt that they haven't said or done anything for us especially after losing a baby. I'm actually feeling anger towards them and feel as though they just don't care. Funny thing is that they also live on the same street which makes it look even worse. I've had family from out of state be more supportive and helpful than they are. It's truly sad... Has anyone ever experienced anything similar or have any advice? I would go talk to them and tell them how we feel, but they aren't the type of people you can do that with. My husband says they usually just brush everything off and they never change (They're very authoritarian). I know I should just distance myself from them and let it go, but I can't stop the pain and I can't stop thinking about it..  😩😣