What to do with suspicious husband?

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I just put a topic up called "suspicious husband".

I ended up talking to him about his deleted texts and why he was calling a female coworker after work. 
He claims he deleted the texts on purpose just to piss me off? I'm sorry but I am not buying that. I never go through his phone so he wouldn't have known I was going too.

And then he said that his coworker had questions about his boss that they couldn't discuss at work. She didn't explain that in the text. She just asked him to give her a call after work and he did.

I don't mean to jump to conclusions but I am freaking out!!! I really need your help ladies. What do I do? How should I think about all this? What next?  
I have such a bad feeling because he has been acting so weird lately. I am almost convinced he is seeing someone else... But I have no way of proving it!  
Please help 😩

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I dealt with the same crap with my ex. I let he lie to me for years.  I loved him and didn't want to believe what my gut was telling me and his actions were proving. Needless to say I was right all along and when I finally was strong enough I left. If you can't trust what he tells you,  talk to the girl (though she could be a trifling homewrecker and lie) maybe she will tell you what's up.  Just don't lie to yourself.  I don't believe you're overreacting! Good luck and God bless!

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Trust your gut feeling. ALWAYS.

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If the text was deleted. How do you know?? Honestly, sit down with him & try to have an open conversation with him about things. Tell him that if he no longer wants this (your marriag) to tell you. Tell him you won't be mad because after all why would you be. You can't control your heart but that you need him to be fair to you & the vows you made in the sense of at least giving you that much respect before he does something that's truly betraying that is in his control. You don't deserve that. You deserve to be able to move on with dignity & respect. Good luck.

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That's how my husband was acting when he was cheating, now he has a 3 yr old with his ex co-worker. Every time I confronted he denied everything but after a DNA test he can't denied it anymore.

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Don't confrunt him. He will not come clean IF he has anything to hide. Try to find the truth without appearing suspicious to him. It's not easy, worst case scenario hire a private detective...🙈

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woman's intuition is never wrong. keep investigating

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Honestly though with your gut feeling. But as you stated you have no solid proof so I wouldn't jump to any conclusions in till you guys have an open discussion or possibly meet up with a coworker and see how that goes. Some girls are more likely to break and tell you everythingbecause they feel bad or there put on the spot

What to do with suspicious husband?

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