Two years ago my best friend of 13 years at the time cut me out of her life. Deleted me off Facebook and ignored my various text messages and never spoke to me again.

Last Friday I had a message from her on Facebook just saying hi. A day later another message basically saying she wishes me all the best and it's a shame our friendship went down the drain.

I replied today and was just quite factual about it, how she deleted me out of her life with no explanation. She has replied again and is practically making it out to be my fault! That she felt like I didn't have time for her anymore or want to be friends.

To be honest we had started to drift apart but I never thought this would happen. I thought we would be friends forever.

She hasn't apologised at all. Just seems to be trying to make me be the one in the wrong.

I have to admit that it does get me down as she was a major part of my life we went travelling together etc.

But 2 years is a long time, alot happens and people change. I can't help but feel like I just do not want her in my life. As upsetting as that is for me I just know that things would never be like before.

She has practically said that because I didn't reply to a message until about a week later that's why she cut me off.

Rather than do the mature thing and talk things through.

I feel very confused as obviously there is s part of me that misses her and wants to be friends with her again. But the majority of me remains hurt by it all. To the point that I haven't made any new friends since. Because I feel like there's no point. If your best friend can neglect you like that then any other friend can.

I just wanted to know if any of you have been in a similar situation and how you dealt with it? Did you give your friendship another chance?

Or even if you havent had this happen to you, if it did, what would you do?