Orgasms during sex

Sarah 🌻
Ok ladies! So in all of my sexual experiences I have never cum once during sex. And I'm not talking through penetration only. I'm talking from foreplay to oral to fingering to penetration I just can't seem to finish. I can easily do it on my own, but when it comes to me being with a man there's some sort of barrier I can't seem to cross. I'm not sure what it is exactly but even if I try to help it along and rub my clit I still can't climax? Is this just me or do other women have this problem too? I'm so jealous of all my girl friends that talk about all the amazing orgasms they feel when they're with their man! I know most women do not orgasm through penetration alone, but to have none at all through other stimulations? Frustrating! 
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I struggled with this same problem for a while! It may not be the same for you but for me, personally, i found it was mind over matter. I worried more about climaxing, about what HIS body was feeling, or even what his mind was thinking. So much so that I forgot to let loose and enjoy myself! Don't get stuck in your own head. Be FEARLESS with your self expression.  Most importantly, get what you need to feel great ✌🏾️

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Sarah 🌻 • Mar 15, 2016
I feel like this is exactly what I'm doing. I'm letting my thoughts get in the way of a good time. I'll keep this in mind abs try to let loose! Thanks! 😘

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Make sure you speak up when something works or doesn't work for you, and don't be afraid to move your hips, arch your back to help you out. He will adjust to what works for him, you adjust too.