Orgasms during sex

Sarah 🌻
Ok ladies! So in all of my sexual experiences I have never cum once during sex. And I'm not talking through penetration only. I'm talking from foreplay to oral to fingering to penetration I just can't seem to finish. I can easily do it on my own, but when it comes to me being with a man there's some sort of barrier I can't seem to cross. I'm not sure what it is exactly but even if I try to help it along and rub my clit I still can't climax? Is this just me or do other women have this problem too? I'm so jealous of all my girl friends that talk about all the amazing orgasms they feel when they're with their man! I know most women do not orgasm through penetration alone, but to have none at all through other stimulations? Frustrating!