So... I graduated college last May. I landed a job in my field and relocated to another city. I enjoy being around people and this is my first time living alone without roommates. I got lonely decided to do the online dating thing met  guy we were cool it turned into a sexual friendship. He started taking the condom off and I scolded him but would allow him to do it anyway the last time was October. Fast forward I met the man of my dreams he was perfect he's a recent college graduate as well we were the same age and similar places in our lives (except he's going to military to pay for grad school) I've never met someone like I really wanted to be with him for the rest of my life. I went to my annual doctor then we had unprotected sex (my fault) I got a call from my doctor saying I had an std (it was treatable) I told him he was sweet about it and said he would get tested well since then he went on a 2 day hiatus and came back and said he was sorry he needed time now we are texting but he hasnt made plans to see me despite my attempts. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? Is there hope? I don't want to lose him