Situation is getting worse
So now it seems like my fiancés babymother is getting more and more impatient with our relationship. She doesn't know anything about me only my name. She never saw me, she doesn't know my number, she's not even 100% sure me and my fiancé are living together. So she's been grilling her daughter a lot and it makes me feel really bad because I don't want my fiancés daughter in that situation. Every time my fiancé sees his babymother she mad about something else that has to do with me. Like she was mad because her daughter will say Taj took me to the mall today or Taj and I baked cookies together. She going off saying her daughter only has one mother and I will never be her mother. She also called him screaming at him because I guess his daughter got mad at her and told her how I'm nicer to her and how she likes me better. She says that my fiancé is turning her kids against her
His babymother is a pathological liar so I don't know if his daughter really did say those things or if she's making it up just to start a fight. His daughter was really upset the other day because my fiancé was trying to explain to her again that if she tells her mom stuff about me it could be a very long time before she and her brother see us again. She was crying because all her mother does is scream at her and hit her until she tells her mother what she wants to hear.
I'm really tired of this she's a four year old little girl and she's being put under all this stress. The only reason I'm hesitating meeting her is because I know it's just so she can threaten me and harass me. She also mainly wants to control my fiancé and dictate who he can be with so I don't think meeting me will solve anything but make her even more mad. I really don't know what to do anymore. My fiancé told me he doesn't want me meeting her and I don't think I should just stop coming around. My fiancé and I live together, we're getting married, I'm going to have their future siblings and they love me. I just do not want their daughter in the middle of it anymore. 😔
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