Anally Confused?! Lollll

Question

So my bf n I tried anal for the first time a few days ago. Yes we used lub but it hurt so much and it didn't even go all the way in. Are we doing something wrong? And how to make it be not so painful?

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Butt plug.

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I love anal. Lol. It's best for me when he kisses and licks my ass first then he will stick a little in at a time using lots of saliva, when he gets about half way i let him shove the rest in. Arousal, lubricant, and communication is key. Try different angles. I like being on all fours. That way I can play with kitty, which also helps.

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LUBE LUBE LUBE!!!!
Can't stress that enough.
Honestly a water based lube is so good. And lots of it, put it all over and also all over him as well... Go very slowly when inserting it, and I will be on all fours and I'll grab his D and help when inserting it, he feels more comfortable with me doing it anyway so he doesn't hurt me. But it your both into it and feeling it it won't hurt. It feels so good.. Good luck

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Our first time was a few months ago and it hurt soooo bad...I don't even think I let him get in all the way! But last night our second time trying it we used a lube that numbs a little but (you still fill it but it doesn't hurt as much), anal beads, and he fingered my butt until I was relaxed...then we went slowly ...getting the head in is the worst part ...then after a little while of him going slowly (he was only going in probably 3 inches) I told him to speed up his thrusts but only go in 3 inches like he was.. It felt AMAZING...tonight I'm going to repeat this but then have him go in all the way...I'm actually really anticipating it

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I had anal for the first time a few days ago, and at first it was unbearable so i had him stop. Later i had him try again from a lower angle and i relaxed my muscles and it went it with no pain and felt really good. Everyones different, i didnt use any lube but a lot of people need it.

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I've tried it, it's not what I'm into and  afraid we'll have sex so hard my insides might be damaged. I know that sounds silly but it can happen

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sadly my first time doing anal was forced, I didn't give consent, my boyfriend just pushed me against the bed and forced it in. No lube, not even my own lubrication. But my other experiences after that one, it was easy once I relaxed my whole body and it just slid in

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Try on yourself a few times alone first

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Don't just lube up his dick and stick it in lol use fingers to help losen you up and relax the muscles but don't forget lube

Anally Confused?! Lollll

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