Why men cheat

I saw,a,question regarding this and now can't find it. So here's my tried-and-true advice to why.

First why: 1. It's habitual. They've been single for a while, used to stealing glances and looking at porn. This can be fixed.

2. They're bored at home. This can happen bc you're "mom" all the time, or "friend" to your girls, or "employee," etc but not "his girl."

3. Someone else is stroking his ego. This is the biggest. This is the reason why guys are on dating sites. And add girls to Facebook, etc.

4. You're too predictable, have little or no ambition, and therefore have lost your mystery.

What do those girls have that you don't, you may be asking? Stop before you think it's a body image. Men really don't care about that as much as women think they do. What they have is MYSTERY.

So get your mystery on. Join a club, begin a class, invent something, be busy about something not related to your friends, your kids, or work. Be less available.

Next, stroke his ego. If he's an intellectual, stroke that. Tell him he's smart. Tell him why you think he's smart. Men love being appreciated. Ask him to do things for you and then thank him for it, even if he screwed up. Tell him he's the only man that can do (fill in the blank.) Complement him in front of his friends, or your friends. Brag about him. Let him hear you or tell him you did. Find a feature that you love and tell him frequently that it's amazing. Like his hands. Nobody has hands like his, for instance.

For those ttc, stop making sex about a baby and make it fun, flirty, and to be desired. Put some fishnets on. Arrange for a sitter and do it in the kitchen instead. Change it up.

Be positive. Have a positive attitude. Men hate gossip and drama. So keep that for your girls. Be that light in his day. Show up at his work with coffee, or a treat, and praise him for being him.

And lastly, the other biggie, be SUPPORTIVE. Support his vision, his dream, whether it's a business or a cattle farm or a fabrication shop. Who cares if it's unattainable? Do you really? Would you rather have a loyal, loving, faithful man, or a less - ridiculous vision? Tell him he can do it, that you see his vision and it's a good one and interject ideas.

Those other women won't stand a chance, ladies. Promise.