How long do you wait to have sex with new boyfriend?

Question

Ladies,
How long do you ususually take to give your new boyfriend sex?
Everyone says 1 month after is too soon, but I think otherwise.
Is there really a rule about giving it up to soon? We are no longer dating, we are together officially.

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I usually do it right away.
After a week or two, typically, the first night my partner and I were together we had sex at least 30 times haha.

I like to know I'm sexually comparable with a potential partner before it gets too too serious but serious enough I know it isn't just a lust thing.

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You wait as long as you need to
You wait until you trust him completely and there's no doubt in your mind he will ever deliberately hurt you

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I did it with guys before we start dating, it all depends on your comfort level with sex and what it means to you i use it as a tool to get to know them and its fun! No one gets to judge you or decide whens the right time for YOU.

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Thank you all for your awesome responses!

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I said three months - did it in 1.5 months but had been in same bed 3/4. Nights a week from the second date when he invited me for a cuddle sleep over and we'd played with one another - had to wait for his std test to come back ... It beat my 3 month time line and we were so into each other texting and bigging up the excitement to find out his mum had been hospitalised for a minor issue and had to wait a week to see him.. After that never take our hands off each other :) remember even if you do it you don't have to next time :D

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I waited 8 months with my boyfriend

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Me and my guy were at it on our official first date! Couldn't keep away from each other ;)

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It's right when you want it and not because your boyfriend pushes the issue. Once your ready go for it!

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Whenever you feel is right; go with the flow of chemistry.

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Still waiting...😬 we have been talking (basically dating) for 8 months!!! Officially dating for about one month. It's killing me!

How long do you wait to have sex with new boyfriend?

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