Anal is so painful!!

I'm ok not ever doing anal lol

Literally gets 1mm in and I wanna vom far to painful I'm pretty happy with not doing anal haha 

U tell him u wanta ease it in urself. N when u do just relax n breath slowy

have both of you lay down and him behind you on your sides. that's the only way I can do it as it's the least painful. 

You should start with small objects and move up in size SLOWLY. This is what I did and now have no problem having anal sex. I would also play and practice alone just because you can be relaxed and learn to relax your body and breathing easier.

O my. I seriously hope he was working itvin really slow. If he trys to jam it in you're going to br hurt. Slow and steady. You can start with anal beads and work up. It isn't a quick thing when you are new to it.

Don't eat greasy/fatty foods or drink carbonated drinks, and don't make yourself full when eating before hand. Use the restroom, wipe/clean thoroughly. What works for us is having me bent over the bed, doggy, or on my stomach. He lubes himself up (KY Ultragel) then rubs lube on me. He inserts slow, which hurts, and once he's in he thrusts normally like in vaginal intercourse. Having slow anal sex is too painful for me. If he's got a normal/fast pace, that's when I enjoy it. I also have him rub my clit, or I'll do it, and we almost always orgasm/cum at the same time.

I can't do anal. We've tried many times and, same as you, it's been way too painful for me for us to continue. We use a ton of lube and I bear down and all of that and it still hurts so bad, not pleasurable for me at all. I've just come to accept that anal is not something my body can handle and my bf is fine with us not doing it. Some girls just aren't made for anal, don't sweat it. 

Gives u good orgasms too