Anal is painful!!

Try spooning position. It's so much easier and so less painful it's really enjoyable once u get going.

Oh man I've tried it several times and it's always super painful and I feel like I'm pooping. Not planning on trying it again. One of my exes swore that an ex girlfriend loved it right after having an orgasm from oral sex- I guess the orgasm would relax muscles enough. I've just never been a fan of any butt stuff. 

Ask him to try a buttplug and show him how it feels, won't make it easier for you but it may cheer you up? ;)

We used this stuff called anal eze. It basically numbs it up. After about 3 minutes (and a condom, of course) I couldn't feel a thing. We don't do it often, but it's pretty fun when we do. 

Me and my hubby do it every once in a while.It hurts but the secret is have him just ease alittle bit in then wait for the pain to subside then alittle more and so on.Its enjoyable after its in😊

Baby...y'all braver than me. That's one thing I cant bring myself to do.

My partner trys. I mean, it was only once where i was like 'ow! Hell no!' Because he was so horny and wanted to go at it. But instead if gently easing in he just pushed. But yeah. Weve done it multiple times, depends for me really. At first i cared, now i dont care. Im not telling him that, cause he likes it. And if he knows i like it then nope. But you basically go to ease up and not tense up. 

I've only done it twice. First time hurt like hell I was totally unprepared but the second time I relaxed and it felt better. My best advice is just relax. Don't think about it. And use LOTS of lube. 

Use lots of lube, if you think you have enough, you're wrong, use some more. Doggy style position helps so you control how much of him goes in. He stays still you ease back. Also get a small vibrator and use it on your clit while you are getting him in the back door. It will help distract you and relax you. GO SLOW! Once he's in a little rest and get used to that feeling before pushing in a bit more and rest a little each time he gets a little deeper. Once he's in all the way, he has to take it slow until you relax and don't mind the movement. If your honey is bigger than the average guy, it very well may be that anal won't be on the sex menu for you two. My bf is too large for me to ever say yes to that, and he isn't interested in anal, so I've lucked out there.

It's really mind over matter. You have to relax and no matter how many times you do it, he's not going to be able to just shove it in and go at it without hurting you really badly. Take it extremely slow, use lube, and make sure you are turned on. It helps to talk through it and have him touch you elsewhere to take your mind off of the, you know "There! Is! A! Dick! Trying! To! Be! In! My! Ass!" Lol 😂 Its not for everyone but I dig it. 😁😎 Good luck! 🙌🏼