So me my mom and bro are going to be my aunt tommorow.she has a doctors appointment and is getting a breast biopsy done. My fiance has class and i told him if he wanted to come over and see hows she doing comfort her after class then he can but it would be inappropriate for us to leave and go shopping and stuff so i told him we are just going to chill with the family.hes deploying soon so i want him to be aroud the family as much as possible. Now my mom and bro mad at me telling me im being selfish for having him come because it isnt the time and she may not want him to see her like that. Now I know my aunt  wouldnt mind. My family welcomed him as apart family and im sorry but if his family member was sick or something as much as they welcomed me into the family, i would come be by their side. But dang am i wrong for having him come?