Social media

LaShonda
Do you think that social media can cause problems in relationships? Not cheating but just constantly being on it?

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Ca

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Social media only has as much power as you give it. I firmly believe that anyone who claims social media ruined their life really just was with an awful person or some other underlying issue but it's just easier to blame social media. Stop thinking into it so much stop obsessing over it and stop giving it the power to run your life. 

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Amanda • Mar 18, 2016
Arya, you kind of proved Caroline's point. It's that underlying issue that's gotten you so worked up over social media.

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Caroline🌼 • Mar 18, 2016
Person cheating not social media making them cheat. Don't blame social media bc you dated/married/slept with a cheating asshole. They would have cheated anyways.

Ca

Caroline🌼 • Mar 18, 2016
That's not at all what I said. People who cheat through social media would have cheated without it as well. Social media didn't lead them to cheating. Yes they may have cheated through social media but how is that any different than cheating through a dating site or email? It's still the other

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Social media can become addictive and damaging in certain respects. It's important to make sure you keep a healthy perspective about it and don't let it take a super present role in your life. You have to make sure you're in control of it and that it doesn't control you.

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LaShonda • Mar 18, 2016
I agree with this completely

Sa

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I'm divided on this. Realistically if you  were in a secure and healthy relationship something like social media wouldn't be an issue. Unfortunately though social media in relationships has an easy way of causing jealousy. I trust my boyfriend but when I see him liking pictures of girls on social media (especially if they're beautiful skinny models) I  secretly get my feelings hurt.

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Lol. I strongly belive that social media such as Facebook, are the root of all evil. From number one relationship ender, to cheating, to drama, to even losing BEST FRIENDS FROM CHILDHOOD, over one comment, one opinion. Facebook, Twitter and instagram have officially become an addiction. Many spend HOURS buried in their phone, tablet or computer. Waste of time, waste of space, waste of life.

Au

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You mean like not taking their eyes off their phone? Not really, i mean it's not that addictive. But i think it is for other reasons.

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Au • Mar 18, 2016
Yeah if it gets like that it's bad. Definitely should take a break from their phone in general

La

LaShonda • Mar 18, 2016
Yes like eyes glued to the phone. Can't touch the phone without checking it. Lol some people really are that addicted.

Al

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My husband and I deleted social media. Not because we were worried about cheating, but because it is a waste of time in our opinion. We spend less time on our phones and don't miss it at all! I even get to do more hobbies now, rather than checking my wall. 

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My husband and I both don't have social media. My husband never had a Facebook or any kind of social media- it's not his thing. I had fb for years and about four years ago I deactivated it cause I was sick of drama and it really does take up so much of your time. It's just so hard to stay off of it if you have it. Honestly, I love not having it anymore. I had lots of family that live overseas that I didn't really talk to anyways, so I didn't really care that we weren't keeping in touch anymore. And my close family overseas that I am close to, we keep in touch on whatsapp by sending pics, videos, and messages. 

Ma

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If you respect your s.o and can be an adult then why should times up. But if you're a pig and get caught up then yes big time it messes it up.

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Marilyn • Mar 18, 2016
Why should it Mess things up .

Ni

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My boyfriend and I post nothing about our relationship on social media except for a picture here and there, birthday messages, and our relationship status is on there. Besides that nothing. No problems here.