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So confused

I made the biggest mistake of my life and after my husband and I having a bad patch I slept with a guy and he got me pregnant. I have been trying for 13 years. Do I carry on the pregnancy and loose my marriage or?..I'm devastated but only myself to blame. Please don't shout at me.
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What ever decision you make just make sure it's one that YOU can live with & that YOU won't regret. Best of luck to you!

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Co • Mar 18, 2016
I second this, this is great advice. (:

Di

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So from my perspective if my husband and I went through this. If I choose to work on it knowing he had cheated a baby wouldn't change anything. So if he knows about the afair just break the baby to him gently. In my opinion you can't truly fix your mariage without honesty.

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Yikes... I don't know what I would do. What I do know is I couldn't lie for that long. It would eat me up inside. What would you want him to do if he was in your situation? I think he will be devastated. There is a chance he won't forgive you, you need to realize that. But id those are the consequences and you face them, you'll be able to walk away with integrity.

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Be honest... Lying to him will crush him when he finds out. Best of luck! 

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What dose your husband think dose he know ?

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Denae • Mar 18, 2016
babe i would be honest with him becouse as much as it may break his heart he might come around he will apreciate your honesty... he may need some time though

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Charlotte • Mar 18, 2016
He dosent it would kill him
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