My husband is normally ready to go all the time but now that we are trying he has been having some "trouble"... I have considered that maybe he isn't ready but we have talked at length about having children and he has said he definitely wants them and wants to have his first within 1.5 years (by age 30). With my health history (stage 4 endometriosis and ovarian cysts) we need to start like NOW for that to even maybe be possible.

I have gained some weight lately... like 15-20 lbs ... per doctors orders to help us TTC. I know he doesn't like the weight gain and has said that it is causing him to be less frisky lately but it feels like more than that.

He is also very squeamish and ik the thought of what is happening down there gets to him sometimes.

This is majority affecting our sex life especially while in the o-zone. I really don't want it affecting our chances of getting pregnant! I have tried everything from bjs to sexy underwear but he still has problems getting it up sometimes.

Has anyone else had this happen to them? What can I do?