ANY EX ANAL HATERS?

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I need some help/motivation because I would like to try it but am scared as hell!!!  Stories, tips, how does it feel???? ANYTHING

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I've tried it a few times with my SO and I've hated of every time.. We even have numbing gel and it still was very painful. He also has a big penis so that's probably why it hurt so bad, it all depends on your views and how big your man is. Do your research and use water based lube if you do decide to try it.

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If you and your partner try to jump into it, even with lube, it will hurt like crazy.  Took me 3 tries before I could take it.  Felt fantastic, but it was so stressful trying to get it in, we didn't do it again.  So my pointers are:

Lots of good lube
Patience
More patience
Start with a finger (with clipped nails)
Work to two fingers
Start using the scissor action to stretch
Get a training butt plug set to help your ass learn to accommodate a different size

Take it slow and have fun.  If all you enjoy is a finger, then good for you!

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Lots and lots of lube. Also depends on how you feel and view anal sex.

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I personally love it! If it's your first time TAKE IT SLOW. Have vaginal sex before, it will loosen you up! Also you be in control. It's less scary. I like I doggy style....it's easier!

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I used to think "Anal? HELL NO!" until in the past couple years I heard more and more people talking about it, and how good it felt. Slowly the stigma started to die, and I became curious. I broached the subject with my SO, and he was game. I bought a butt plug and played with it for a few months, getting used to the feeling. Then when I was comfortable with insertion, my SO and I did anal. And it was great! We went very very slow, used the spooning position, and only did it after I'd had a few orgasms already, so I was nice and relaxed. We used plenty of lube, and he was gentle. It's pleasurable in a way I can't describe, other than to say it's not like vaginal pleasure. I can't orgasm from anal, but it's a nice treat every now and again when I'm feeling more frisky than usual. Typically I do anal in concert with my vibrator so I can still get off with my SO.

I'd say, give it a try if you're curious! Just be sure you do it with someone you trust and can be 100% relaxed and comfortable with, otherwise it'll hurt. And go slow! Build up to it, and use plenty of lube! Good luck either way!

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It really helped me like it if I had vaginal see first. It felt even a little better than vaginal ;) use gel like not water based, if your comfortable he could do something with his tongue or fingers to help you physically relax. If you tense up its not going to be pleasant. Just my thoughts :)) I haven't had it much but I know what I like now

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I've attempted anal a few times but usually bleed because I freak out and squirm and tense up.  But when I relax it doesn't hurt as much, so whenever you do and if you try it just relax 😊 lube helps too

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I'm trying it for my bf but I always bleed and it hurts so he's getting beads to help

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Did it with two exes before my current SO and hated it every time. Now I like it. It doesn't work every time but when it does work it's great. It's all about being comfortable:)

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